Becoming a feminist

So, I really cannot stand some things about men.

Why do women get paid less when they're doing the same (amount of) job as men?
Just because a person is male doesnt's necessarily mean they do more than a person who is female.
Plus, most women go home after work and unlike men who get to relax, they need to start cooking, cleaning, washing the dishes and clothes and other things. So, there's no end to working when it comes to women.
And here's the thing I hate most - men thinking it's a woman's obligation to do it all.
Like what the fuck?
If you're such a big tough man, do things yourself not get your woman to do things for you.
Seriously.
Like this morning, my father entered the room and was like, "Why didn't you cook breakfast?"
And I was like, "I wasn't hungry."
Like, why the hell do I have to make the breakfast?!
If you're hungry, make breakfast yourself.
And then he was like, "Why didn't you clean up the kitchen last night?"
And I was like, "Why didn't you?"
Then he was like, "Okay, I'll get the wife to do it when she wakes up."
I was like, "Pfft... women aren't slaves, you know."
Then after a while he came back to me and said, "Thanks for helping," all sarcastically.
And I'm thinking it's not helping when you have to do everything for someone.
Helping is when the person does something and you're doing a few bits here and there for them.
When talking about helping then he thinks he's the doer, but everyone else has to do things.
But he really is the "helper" who thinks helping washing the dishes is creating dirty dishes to wash.
So... what is he?
Plus, the title itsel - Doer - isn't much worth if the person doesn't do anything (/earn the title).

I'm not saying I'm a doer but there is no way I will ever be doing stuff like that for men.
I can do it with them.
I will never be taken for granted like this.

And I will never ever marry anyone.
A wedding is just a lure (with it's white pretty dress and flowers) to a horrible horrible trap of slavery.
Luckily for me, I'm not one for all that girly stuff so... thanks but no thanks.

And as I'm writing this, my father came into the room again and said there's a big pile of dirty dishes left (I cleaned some already, mostly my own).
And I said he can wash those himself and he asked me if I was tired already (sarcastically again).
And I said no and what is wrong with him that he can't wash them.
He just walked off.

Seriously!!!

I loathe this kind of attitude.


And another thing I hate is when men think women have to please them sexually all the time.
Like when a man is horny and the woman is not, she has to get him off.
They're like, "Oh for God's sake, it's not hard to do a blowjob or a handjob, it'll take a few minutes only."
And I'm like yeah, a handjob takes a few minutes only and you have two hands, do it yourself.
And then men justify their cheating with that - that their own woman doesn't want sex.
It's completely normal not to want sex.
And I agree that is completely normal to want sex.
I don't think it's normal to force someone to do sexual things when they don't feel like it.
And everyone's sexuality is their own responisibility.
If you want sex, you figure out how to get it.
It is not the woman's fault when a man cheats on her cause he wasn't getting any from her.
It is not the man's fault either, but it is his choice and responsibility.
He can either control his urges or give into them.
No one has ever died from lack of sex so it isn't vital.

I will see her little baby

Whoop.

My friend will come over to my place tomorrow and I will see her little baby.

:)

Baked the cookies last night so.

Left some for tomorrow as well.

For my friend.

And my stepmum made a cake for tomorrow as well.

Ahh yeah...been playing sims quite a bit.

Had to reinstall it a few times as usual.

It's working okay at the minute.

Almost.

TS030910

Pea soup and cookies

Cooked pea soup last night for the first time.

Was quite tasty actually.

Today I'm gonna bake cookies.

Gah, have to finish my forum, but I'm kind of nervous cause it's such a big change.

Don't wanna fuck up anything and then have to fix it. :(

First day of school is officially over.

Phew!

First day of school is officially over.

First was biology.

Fifth and sixth chemistry.

My head is in bits cause of chemistry.

It's so damn confusing and I don't remember anything.

I was having second thoughts about taking the exam but the teacher said that when studying biology or working in that field I need chemistry as well. So... I have to really try.

I haven't checked the whole week yet but I know I have tomorrow off.

No classes.

Maybe I'll have time to redecorate my forum.

Finally.

The new look is more or less done so...

Just have to transfer it over to the forum.

Yeah... off to cook now.

Brother's finished as well  and no one else is home so I have to be the mother for a while.

Oh and damn! I hate un-scheduled water... er cuts.

I can't wash the dishes or anything and my father's home soon so he will give out to me again for not cleaning the place.

Think somebody had a baby. No?

Whoop! Got Sims 3 working on my laptop!
With Ambitions and all.
So that's a really positive thing about today.

The bad thing is I'm late for my periods.
I'm definitely not pregnant, but I don't understand what the hold up is.
Normally August is the month when everything womanly in me gets messed up, but in a way that I have two periods a month.
Now I don't have any at all.

Just got home from working in garden.
I'm so unfit it's unreal.
I only harvested beetroot and I'm so tired.
Legs are shaky and back is sore.

Ooh, ooh and it's the first of September tomorrow.
I'm getting a bit nervous about school and all.
Hope all goes well.

Yeah I'm off to play the Sims now.
Have to read my own sims blog to follow up.
Think somebody had a baby.  No?